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Monday, April 13, 2015

Thank God For Hometowns

            When I was trying to think of something to blog about because I’ve been slacking lately, a friend at school suggested writing a type of travel guide to where I grew up. I think I offended her a little when I laughed in her face. I didn’t mean to, but a travel guide isn’t needed for my sleepy little town.
            Nonetheless, I thought it would be fun, even if it was a little short.
Welcome to the Brockway borough's dam
(best water ever, and no I'm not bias
just because my boyfriend works there)

            So welcome to my little town of Brockway, Pennsylvania! Home to about 2200 people and not close to anything! When I tell people where I’m from, I usually say a small town in western PA then launch into what it’s closest to since they’ve usually never heard of Brockway. I’m two hours north of Pittsburgh, an hour west of Penn State, and two hours south of Erie.
            I’m from western PA, much different from what people outside of the state think. I’m a fan of Pittsburgh sports, live nowhere near Philly, and prefer Sheetz to Wawa. It’s also called pop, not soda.
            When people jokingly talk about the stereotypical small town they might as well be describing my one-stoplight hometown.
I can name all 45 people I graduated with and could probably still recognize their handwriting. Seeing someone ride through town on a tractor isn’t a big deal and you wave as you pass them (usually it’s my uncle). Sneaking out of the house was easy when I was young, the hard part was avoiding seeing someone who would tell my parents I was out.
One of the biggest shocks when I moved to college was we didn’t receive the Monday after Thanksgiving off of school. I’ve never had to go to school on that day because even if the schools in my area were open, no one would go because they’re all out in the woods on the opening day of buck season.
            I’ve lived in the same house in the same town for 20 years and I can still only list a handful of streets and where they are located. I give directions by landmarks and who lives where and my friends know what I mean.
The only traffic jam you will ever experience in Brockway is trying to get out of the football field parking lot on a Friday night, or attempting to drive around town on the 4th of July.
The 4th of July in Brockway is a big deal. It is the most anticipated day of the year and people joke that it’s when Brockway’s population goes from 2200 to 22,000. Family, friends, and strangers pour in from all over to attend the festivities on the fourth. Because of how I grew up celebrating the Fourth in Brockway and because I absolutely love America, it is hands down my favorite holiday. Now before I get carried away dreaming of the Fourth and reminiscing of past celebrations, without further ado, a travel guide to Brockway, PA.

Paula was one of the most fun
bosses I ever worked for
The Rocky Grill has changed so much since my childhood. I can still remember going there with my family and stealing sips of my dad’s grasshopper when I thought he wasn’t looking. And every year a few weeks before Christmas we would rent out the back room as an entire family and have my grandpa and uncle’s birthday party. We’d karaoke together as a family and enjoy each other’s company. The best thing about the Grill is that I can go there for a quick lunch during the summer while I’m working. Or I can stop in before a football game to grab a burger and wings, but it was also the number one spot to eat prom dinner and take pictures on the steps.  Today the Grill is under new management and I had the privilege of working there for a year before I left for school. I had such a wonderful time and met so many amazing people with incredible stories. I was sad when I heard it was sold again, but it stands as a landmark in our town as it’s been passed from owner to owner.
Nothing beats a buffalo chicken
calazone from Paesano's

If I’m talking food, I had to group some of my other favorite places into the mix. Paesano’s is the best place around if you’re looking for a hoagie (especially Italian ones with extra peppers!). The BP Inn is a favorite hangout of my brother and his friends so I don’t frequent it nearly as often so as to not embarrass him, but it’s still a great place to get pizza and wings. Scottish Heights has some of the most creative dishes I’ve ever eaten, and it’s a fun atmosphere because there is always live entertainment even if you’re not one for golfing.


Brockway may be small, but a few years ago we were blessed with two amazing educational opportunities. The first was the Brockway Center for Arts and Technology. At BCAT, anyone has the chance to train for real jobs in the area such as a pharmacy technician or medical assistant. Or else they can get involved with the art aspect of the program through ceramics.  The other was Butler County Community College. Both are giving people of all ages a chance to enrich their learning experience right from town.
            The Fire hall. Some of the best memories from my childhood came from the carnival they hosted for a week during the summer. I also always get my money’s worth at its all you can eat pancake breakfast the Sunday after thanksgiving.
Always repin' the red and black
            Although I’m not an alum of dear old Brockway high, it still holds a special place in my heart. My friends who graduated the same year as me from Brockway like to call me their honorary classmate and I’m already invited to the BHS class of 2013 reunion. There are so many wonderful teachers I know who work here, and I cannot wait to send my kids to BHS someday.
Johnny and I at Joey's
Confirmation mass
It felt wrong to write a blog about Brockway and not include St. Tobias. Most people in my town identify themselves as Italian and Catholic, and that really is the truth. If you don’t get to Christmas Eve mass at least 30 minutes early, there is no way you’re going to get a seat. I was baptized, received my first communion, and confirmed here, and I’m sure my children will be too.

My beloved frozen hot chocolate (no
whipped cream and extra chocolate)
            Sheetz is wonderful. Sheetz is life. Your life is truly not complete until you’ve gone to one. I calculated once that I have been at a Sheetz at one point or another during all 24 hours of the day. There is nothing better than a frozen hot chocolate to curb your sweet tooth, mac and cheese bites for a quick snack, or a 3:00 AM walking taco to cure the munchies. (I swear I am not a representative for Sheetz, but as much as I market its products I really could be!) What non-PA people don’t quite understand is how a gas station can also double as people’s favorite fast-food stop. I remember when Sheetz only sold made to order hoagies. Now it takes me 10 minutes or more to order because the menu has anything you can possibly imagine.  
I aspire to be half as
amazing as Angel someday
            My favorite store and staffed by some of the sweetest people I’ve ever met is Hepler’s Country Store. If I walk in I have to have one specific item in mind and vow I will not buy anything else or I would walk out with half the store and completely broke. The owner, Angel, is also one of the most genuine, friendliest, sweetest, and down to earth women I have ever met. I love going in just to chat with her about life. She makes shopping fun (and that’s saying a lot because there is absolutely nothing I hate more than shopping). I don’t think I could have survived two years at Syracuse University if it wasn’t for her making sure I had the warmest boots and down-coat known to man.
            Speaking of Hepler’s, another place in Brockway that I have not had the opportunity to grace my business with yet, but it’s coming soon, is Hepler’s Beer Distributor. To those of you who don’t know, PA still doesn’t allow beer to be sold in convenience or grocery stores (hopefully soon!). That doesn’t mean I haven’t been to Hepler’s quite a few times with my dad to stock the beer fridge. In 175 days, they’ll see me often when I come to be a regular customer.
Glass Plant 19
            Believe it or not, Brockway use to be a booming town. The Brockway Glass Company was founded in 1907 and put the town on the map. At one time it was the second largest glass manufacturer in the world, and we were known as Glass Town USA. Brockway Glass eventually merged with Owens-Illinois, but the two glass plants in town are still running. My parents still talk about the long hours they worked at the plant during the summer, and many people I know still work there today. Even though the headquarters is no longer in Brockway, it is still a major employer in the area.
            Some other major employers are Guardian Elder Care and Phoenix Sintered Metals. When I was young, during the summer my dad use to bring me to work at Guardian every now and then. Even when I go out there today and see the people who have been working there for years they always tell me stories of all the “work” I use to do. Since I’ve grown up (at least a little) and gotten a big girl job, I’ve moved on to spend my summers at Phoenix. Last year, and even over Christmas break I had a blast working at the powdered metal factory. It is one of the neatest processes to see powder be made into little parts that are crucial components to things such as guns, engines, ATVs, snow mobiles, and the list seems endless. 
Now I'm lucky enough to share my
time at the park with my baby brother
Yes, I stupidly biked 36 miles
   with absolutely no training
A place that I spent countless hours of my childhood was the park and baseball fields. I played softball for quite a few years and I still go down to the fields to watch my younger brother play. When I was in junior high, the park was the cool hangout to be with your friends after school. As I walk by there today, I see kids still doing the same thing we use to, wondering what life will be like when they’re older and living with such a carefree attitude. Right next to the park and ball fields is rails to trails. It was once the Buffalo-Pittsburgh railroad, and has since been made into the perfect path for running, biking, and walking. Last summer my best friend and I even biked the entire way to the next town over (36 miles total!). A creek runs alongside part of the trail too and it’s great for fishing and canoeing. If you go down far enough there is an old swinging bridge and rope swing too.

Reminiscing on my senior year
as the football ball girl
Walter has been working at
the football field for 23 years
(he also swears this is his last
but has been saying that for
awhile now!)
            Kenny Chesney’s song “The Boys of Fall” might as well been written about Brockway. The football field is a symbol of our town and holds a special place in my heart because it has been dedicated in memory of my grandpa. I can still remember my seventh birthday, my cousins and I were out on the field on a windy night as we revealed the tarp covering the scoreboard after the moment of silence in his name. I know my grandpa is smiling down on the football field every fall Friday night. When he helped build the original one, he named it the “Field of Dreams.” He’d be so proud of how beautiful and well maintained it’s always kept thanks to the legendary Walter.


            Some people hate being restricted to such a little town because they have big city dreams. I can respect that. Even people in my family have moved away, hoping to pursue something bigger in life. I can’t imagine that though? Even being a few hours away at school, I miss the peace and quiet and the familiarity that Brockway offers. I cannot wait to be done with school, move back home and raise a family in my little town. It’s my hometown and I would not be anywhere near the person I am today if it wasn’t for growing up in Brockway.  

Sunday, November 9, 2014

A Letter To My Future Self

To my future self,

            I’m not really sure what to write because I don’t know what to expect 30 years down the road? I don’t even know while I’m writing if I should talk to you or say us? (Sorry the grammar Nazi in me is coming out). The year will be 2064. You’re 50 years old and I hope your kids’ friends think you’re the hot mom. (that is, if you have kids…..)

As of today, my 20-year-old self has hopes and dreams of where I want to live, who I want to marry, and what I want to do with my life. I pray all of those came true.

I hope you love who you have become. I also hope you finally got your shit together after all of these years.

            Hopefully life is everything you thought it was going to be and more.

            I realized that I’m hoping for so much for you. 30 years is a long span, and I’m sure you’ve accomplished so many things and made differences not only in your own life, but others as well.

            I know many things are going to change in the next 30 years. Did you get married? Was it your fairytale wedding, right down to walking down the aisle in your cowboy boots?

            And I’m sure if you got married you had kids. Hopefully you weren’t cursed with all girls, and if you were they were tomboys because lord knows you won’t be able to deal with girly girls. Hopefully they were like the little girl from Remember the Titans because she was just like you. Do you still remember that movie? It was always one of your favorites and you could quote it word for word.

            At this current moment you’re pursuing a bachelors degree in psychology at Syracuse University. Did you only get the single degree and graduate early? Did you double major or transfer? Did you get your masters? What about your doctorate? You toyed with both ideas but never knew if you could deal with that much schooling.

            Do you still live in Brockway? Complete with your log cabin and dream barn in your back yard? Or did you finally take the leap and move south?

            Are Joey and Johnny married too? If so, what are their wives like? Do you like them? Or were you not able to scare them off no matter how hard you tried?

            What’s your biggest accomplishment? Did you finally finish writing a book? And if so, was it published?

            The Steelers currently have six Super Bowl wins. Please tell me they’ve won a few more since then. And the Buccos…. they made the playoffs for the first time in my life last season; please tell me I witnessed them win the World Series.

            Are you still kicking ass at Fantasy Football and impressing everyone with your knowledge of sports? Or did you finally go to the dark side and learn how to curl your hair and apply makeup like a real girl?

            You still drive a truck, right? Currently you have a black F-150, hopefully your head is still on straight and you’re still driving Fords (maybe a Raptor?), but I guess a Velociraptor is acceptable too if you have a family now.

            Can you/do you still eat like a teenage boy? Or did metabolism finally kick in and you have to watch everything you eat so you don’t weigh 500 pounds? The more important question is, can you still eat more crab legs than Joey at The Royal on Wednesdays?

            Do you still hate coffee or did college and horse shows finally change that?

            Did you buy a reiner? Do you even still ride? (I pray you do because I can’t imagine you don’t).
           
            Did you and Mom finally run the Princess half marathon? I know you talked Colt into a Tough Mudder too; did he actually do it with you?

Do you still drown everything in hot sauce?

What about the restaurant and bar you always thought about opening? Did you finally do it just because? You always enjoyed working at the Rocky Grill and meeting new people, and you said one day you’d love to own your own. Or was it just too much and not in the cards?


Sorry. I just had random questions that I really wanted answers to. I’m keeping my fingers crossed your (or is it our?) personality hasn’t changed much because I’m currently very happy with the person I’ve become.

           
            I’m sure there are things you wish you could go back, relive, and possibly change. I know in my current 20 years there are plenty of things I regret. But I’ve learned many lessons from the things I’ve done and wish had turned out differently. So my biggest question of all is, are you happy? Not only with where you are in life, but the person you’ve become?

            In the past 30 years I know you’ve grown as a person and I hope it’s for the best. I hope you have been an exemplary role model for your own children (if you have any) and others. I hope whatever path you’ve chosen it’s one you love and you’ve followed your dreams and done everything you wanted to do.


            You’ve made it this far. Everything really does end up okay. Live every day with love and happiness. Realize how blessed you are and all the wonderful people in your life.


            I can't wait to finally get to be you someday and experience how far we've come in life. 




Xoxo,


~Your Current Self

Monday, October 6, 2014

A Decade Dedicated to Me



What so many people seem forget anymore is that we’re young. We have our entire lives ahead of us. Stop planning so far in advance and live in the moment now. That’s what college and your 20s are for – enjoying yourself. Worry about the rest of life later when it needs to be worried about.

            As of today I have 10 years that are solely focused on me.

            I’m not trying to be selfish, but I will admit that I spent the first 19 years of my life, or at least tried to, pleasing others. I went to school where my parents wanted me to go or pursued a career in order to please them. I said yes to people so I wouldn’t let them down. I did things I didn’t want to do in order to make others happy. And all along I put my own life on the backburner.
            I’m not doing that any longer.
            There are so many things I didn’t do growing up these past 19 years because I didn’t want to inconvenience others or seem too self-centered.

            Things are different now.
            Today I turn 20. Hard to believe I’m no longer a teenager. But today marks the end of something more than teenage years; it marks the beginning of a new lifestyle I plan to live. This decade I’m living out for me. There are so many things I want to try, and if it conflicts with what someone thinks I should do or their thoughts on me, so be it.
            There are dreams I want to pursue, places I want to go, and goals I want to accomplish. And dammit, I plan to.

            When I applied to Syracuse University, I did so because I wanted to get into the S.I. Newhouse School of Public Communications. “My dream” was to be a sportscaster on ESPN or the NFL Network. I did get in to Newhouse and I spent a semester in the program. I could’ve gone through the motions, graduated with a journalism degree, and been famous.
It took a self-revelation though to figure out that’s not what I wanted. 
I was chasing that dream for other people. My parents, teachers in high school, colleagues, town “fans” who followed my sports journalism career, and everyone else who had these expectations for me. Granted, it would be cool to interview Peyton Manning, LeBron James, Derek Jeter, Nick Saban, or some other famous sports star. But I was blessed with the opportunity last summer to spend some time behind the scenes of the Pittsburgh Steelers training camp. I had lunch with Ike Taylor, my absolute favorite player, and he made me realize something – he’s only human.
            Ike and his teammates are just like the football players I hung out with in high school. They’re boys trying to prove who is manlier, stronger, has a cuter girlfriend, etc. The Steelers are just a bit bigger and faster, and get paid to do it while their every move is watched.
            This was the first incident that steered me away from wanting to get involved in this industry. I no longer worship the ground famous people walk on because when it comes down to it, they’re only human.
           
            My dreams are beginning already. I changed my major to psychology and am going to get a business degree as well. I came to Syracuse for others and whether I remain or not is still in question. After I graduate with my bachelor’s degrees I want to move down south. Eventually I hope to get my master’s and then I’ll probably move back to my hometown.
For most of my life I wanted to break off from my family and the family business and forge my own path by myself. Time at college and away from my family has made me change my mind and has opened my eyes to the wonderful things my dad and uncles have done and the amazing opportunities they have given others. I believe I now want to become a part of the family business and continue the legacy my grandpa started.
Eventually though I want to open a therapeutic horseback riding ranch. At one time it was strictly going to be for veterans with PTSD, but I want it to be for all psychological problems and a place for healing and counseling. 


            This decade is for me to live out though. So here is my bucket list of 20 things I plan to do/go/accomplish in the next 10 years:


20. Travel
I plan to travel just a bit. I have dreams of going to Nashville, New Orleans, California, Alaska, Italy, Greece, Spain, and Australia.  I might not make it to all of these places within the decade, but hopefully I cross a few off my list.

19. Motorcycle License
I’m going to get my motorcycle license, despite the vast majority of people telling me not to because it’s dangerous.

18. Puppy
I want to get a puppy even though my parents will kill me.

17. Tattoo
Also planning on getting a tattoo that has a very significant meaning.

16. Skydive
You only live once right? So that means I have to jump out of a plane and soar through the air at least once.

15. Complete a Tough Mudder and Color Run.
Currently in training for a Tough Mudder and I just want to get tie-dyed while I run!

14. Road trip across the country.
Honestly, what would be amazing and is my dream is to take a photo of the sun rising over the ocean on the east coast, and setting over the ocean on the west coast. It might take me a week to get from coast to coast, but those are two pictures I plan on taking.

13. Drive a racecar.
Not only drive, but hopefully even race. Now I just need to talk my uncle into trusting me with one of his cars…..

12. Jump off a waterfall/cliff.
It’s done in the movies all the time so I want to try it.

11. Complete a challenge featured on Man Vs. Food.
My family says I’m a garbage disposal so I want to see if I can live up to my nickname.

10. Leave my mark
I want to either be able to walk into a place where everyone knows my name or have my picture hanging on the wall for something I accomplished. (Not a Wall of Shame though!)

9. Crash a wedding
Anyone feel like helping me come up with a back-story and finding a wedding to attend?

8. Run a marathon
I guess I’ll start with a half, but I hope to work up to a full eventually!

7. Put a message in a bottle
It was always (and still is) my dream to go to the beach and find a bottle with a note in it. I want to write a letter and my contact information and hopefully receive a reply.

6. Vegas
Everyone always says what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. I think it’s one of those places you need to go to at least once in your life to experience.

5. TBD
Five is my favorite number so I figured I’d have to pick something good. This one though is going to be my mystery number on my bucket list. Eventually I’m going to take a leap of faith and do something I never imagined myself doing. So for now I guess it remains a mystery?

4. Go horseback riding on the beach
With my love of horses you think I would have done this already but I honestly never have.

3. Attend a game at every NFL stadium
I’ve been saying this one for years but I want to visit every field and enjoy the atmosphere.

2. Finish one of the books I started writing
There are a few of them now. Some are close to being done, others only have random ideas written across a few pages, and some aren’t written down yet but are finished in my head. I’ll complete one eventually.

1. Make a significant impact on someone’s life
I hope to one day hear that I was a role model or a source of motivation to someone. Maybe I stopped them from making a terrible mistake, or encouraged them to go after their dream. Whatever it is, I want to impact someone’s life in a major way.




At this moment I’m not sure what else I want to pursue? I have ten years though to fill with adventures, fun, memories, and lessons.
(I’ll let you know in 10 years how many I crossed off this list)